By Maxime Lagacé
Maxime is the founder of WisdomQuotes. He has been collecting quotes since 2004. His goal? To help you develop a calm and peaceful mind. Learn more about him on his about page.
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Here are 100 of the best self-esteem quotes I could find.
Keep in mind:
having true self-esteem is a long process.
But if you keep going, things can change.
And your life will never be the same:
- You will stop caring so much about what other people think
- You will be more self-reliant
- You will feel more freedom
- You will be more relaxed
After all, the opinion we must value the most is our own.
Not the one from our mother.
Not the one from our father.
Not the one from our friends.
Our own.
You’ll discover quotes by Buddha, Emerson, Osho, and more.
Enjoy!
Top 10 Self-Esteem Quotes
Self-esteem is made up primarily of two things: feeling lovable and feeling capable. Jack Canfield
I used to hate feeling embarrassed, but then I realized nobody’s watching and nobody gives a damn. Barbara Corcoran
Be faithful to that which exists within yourself. André Gide
Who you are inside is what helps you make and do everything in life. Fred Rogers
Love yourself first and everything else falls into line. You really have to love yourself to get anything done in this world. Lucille Ball
The world will never value you more than you value yourself. Bill Masur
Self-esteem isn’t everything; it’s just that there’s nothing without it. Gloria Steinem
Tell your struggling self, I love you so much. Haemin Sunim
You don’t have to convince anybody of anything, and you don’t have to attract anyone’s attention. Haruki Murakami (Norwegian Wood)
No one actually knows what the hell they’re doing. Everyone is just working off their current best guess. Mark Manson
Famous Self-Esteem Quotes
A person’s self-esteem has nothing to do with how she looks. Halle Berry
The most terrifying thing is to accept oneself completely. Carl Gustav Jung
The deepest principle in human nature is the craving to be appreciated. William James
To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment. Ralph Waldo Emerson
If you don’t believe in yourself, no one will do it for you. Kobe Bryant
Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind. Dr. Seuss
I prefer to be true to myself, even at the hazard of incurring the ridicule of others, rather than to be false, and to incur my own abhorrence. Frederick Douglass
Every small positive change we make in ourselves repays us in confidence in the future. Alice Walker
Nothing builds self-esteem and self-confidence like accomplishment. Thomas Carlyle
When you undervalue what you do, the world will undervalue who you are. Oprah Winfrey
You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection. Buddha
Wanting to be someone else is a waste of the person you are. Marilyn Monroe
Humility is the mother of giants. One sees great things from the valley; only small things from the peak. G.K. Chesterton (The Innocence of Father Brown)
There is nothing noble in being superior to your fellow men. True nobility lies in being superior to your former self. Ernest Hemingway
If people believe in themselves, it’s amazing what they can accomplish. Sam Walton (Walmart)
You doubt your value. Don’t run from who you are. C.S. Lewis (Prince Caspian)
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Short Self-Esteem Quotes
The loudest critic is internal. James Clear
Love who you are, embrace who you are. Lilly Singh
Chasing approval chases it away. @TheStoicEmperor
Talk about your failures without apologizing. Brené Brown
The world can only see us as we see ourselves. David Hawkins
Stop comparing your life to everyone around you. Eric Thomas
You can steer yourself in any direction you choose. Dr. Seuss
You have real success when you don’t try to impress. Maxime Lagacé
Put all excuses aside and remember this: you are capable. Zig Ziglar
More Quotes About Self-Esteem
Action is a high road to self-confidence and self-esteem. Bruce Lee
Feeling good about ourselves is essential in our being able to love others. Fred Rogers
The only thing that matters in life, is your own opinion about yourself. Osho
Respect your uniqueness, and drop comparison. Relax into your being. Osho
People only root for you after you root for yourself. Alex Hormozi
Shame is the most powerful, master emotion. It’s the fear that we’re not good enough. Brené Brown
Your sense of self-worth comes from you alone – never the opinion of others. Robert Greene
One who knows himself is never disturbed by what you think about him. Osho
You may not control all the events that happen to you, but you can decide not to be reduced by them. Maya Angelou
I hope you’re able to grow to respect whoever you are inside. Fred Rogers
Don’t let anyone make you feel that you don’t deserve the good things that happen in your life. Paulo Coelho
It’s exhausting caring about what other people think. Thibaut
The worst outcome in this world is not having self-esteem. If you don’t love yourself, who will? Naval Ravikant
Nothing will attract people to you as much as your values. Naval Ravikant
Hesitation puts obstacles in your path, boldness eliminates them. Robert Greene
Develop a love for solitude and silence and you’ll get peace and self-reliance in return. Maxime Lagacé
The better you feel about yourself, the less you feel the need to show off. Robert Hand
If you want to see the love of your life, look in the mirror. Byron Katie
The best way to improve your self-esteem: Get your body in shape. It won’t fix everything, but the effort needed to get yourself lean and healthy is something that you can always look back on and be proud of. Dan Go
To keep going when it’s tough is important. To believe in yourself no matter what is vital. Maxime Lagacé
Love yourself. When you love yourself, people can pick up on that: they can see confidence, they can see self-esteem, and naturally, people gravitate towards you. Lilly Singh
Self-esteem begins with self-understanding, grows with courage and perseverance, ends with confidence. Maxime Lagacé
You have moments, days, sometimes weeks when you will doubt yourself. Just know, it is all part of the spiritual process. Iyanla Vanzant
Retrieve your self-esteem so it is not dependent on how they do or don’t respond to you. You are enough. You are worthy. Thema Bryant-Davis
Your own level of excitement and self-belief will convince people that you know where you are going and should be followed. Robert Greene
Creative ideas happen when you stop thinking about what others will think. James Clear
Surround yourself with people who only lift you higher. Payal Kadakia
So much advantage in life comes from being willing to look like an idiot over the short term. Shane Parrish
When I extend small kindness to others, I find it easier to like myself. If you feel that your self-esteem is low, try extending small kindness to strangers. Haemin Sunim
We can gradually drop our ideals of who we think we ought to be… or who we think other people think we want to be or ought to be. Pema Chödrön
Don’t compare your chapter 1 to someone else’s chapter 20. Tom Bilyeu
The starting point of building your self-esteem is for you to have a clear sense of who you are and what you want. Brian Tracy
Disciplining yourself to do what you know is right and important, although difficult, is the highroad to pride, self-esteem, and personal satisfaction. Margaret Thatcher
Every hero must have the courage to be alone, to take the journey for himself. Joseph Campbell
Eliminate the need to be liked. Replace it with the intention to be of service, whether to others, something you believe in, or your highest self. Neil Strauss
Low self-esteem is like driving through life with your handbreak on. Maxwell Maltz
No matter how hard you try, there is always some guy or girl who achieves more. My attitude is, so what? Does any of us need to be at the very top of the whole world? It’s ridiculous. Charlie Munger
The reward for conformity is that everyone likes you but yourself. Rita Mae Brown
If you care too much about being praised, in the end you will not accomplish anything serious. Leo Tolstoy (A Calendar Of Wisdom, Amazon book)
The foundation for self-esteem is self-understanding. Maxime Lagacé
It takes great personal courage to let yourself appear weak. David Foster Wallace (Infinite Jest)
The best way to be miserable is by comparing yourself to others. Shane Parrish (Source)
Don’t discuss yourself, for you are bound to lose; if you belittle yourself, you are believed; if you praise yourself, you are disbelieved. Michel de Montaigne
When you’re lazy you avoid the hard work necessary to build lasting self-esteem. Maxime Lagacé
When someone bases their self-esteem on the approval of others, they are abandoning themselves. It is an exhausting and powerless way to live. Neil Strauss
Everyone is lying – about what they make, about how confident they feel, about how hard they work, about how well things are going. Stop comparing yourself to these lies. Stop thinking about them at all. Ryan Holiday
Ask for what you want. You usually won’t get it, and often the rejection will be painful. But when this works, it works surprisingly well. Sam Altman
Every action is a vote for the type of person you wish to become. James Clear
If you are insecure, guess what? The rest of the world is too. Do not overestimate the competition and underestimate yourself. You are better than you think. T. Harv Eker
The only way to feel better about yourself is to do things worth feeling good about. Respect is earned, not given. Mark Manson
People wear all sorts of things, but the best part is the part that’s on the inside. That’s what’s really you — the person inside. Fred Rogers
Talking much about oneself can also be a means to conceal oneself. Friedrich Nietzsche
If you are ever tempted to look for outside approval, realize that you have compromised your integrity. If you need a witness, be your own. Epictetus
Nothing I accept about myself can be used against me to diminish me. Audre Lorde
Don’t base your identity on your imperfection. You aren’t your imperfections, you are the being that is aware of your imperfections. Haemin Sunim
Pay respect that you may be respected, and know that to be esteemed you must show esteem. Baltasar Gracián
Why should we worry about what others think of us, do we have more confidence in their opinions than we do our own? Brigham Young
If you boast, you will have no merit. If you promote yourself, you will have no success. Lao Tzu (Tao Te Ching, Amazon book)
Part 3. Conclusion
You are loved just for being who you are, just for existing. You don’t have to do anything to earn it. Your shortcomings, your lack of self-esteem, physical perfection, or social and economic success – none of that matters. No one can take this love away from you, and it will always be here. Ram Dass
Visual For Self-Esteem
You change the world by being yourself. Yoko Ono
Know, first, who you are, and then adorn yourself accordingly. Epictetus
Grow up! Who cares what other people think about you! Epictetus
If you are always trying to be normal you will never know how amazing you can be. Maya Angelou
When you see your beauty you will be the idol of yourself. Rumi
The privilege of a lifetime is to become who you really are. Carl Jung
The one you are looking for is you. Osho
Key Takeaways
- Want higher self-esteem? Remember most people don’t care. And most people are not watching you.
- The most precious thing in the world? Who you are inside.
- Keep in mind:
- Everyone has doubts
- Everyone is struggling with something
- The benefits of high self-esteem?
- You stop seeking attention
- You stop being a spectator
- You start creating your life
- There’s a difference between high self-esteem and arrogance. So never forget: humility is beauty.
Further Readings
- Topic: Happiness
- 81 Happiness Quotes That Will Light Up Your Day 😄
- The Six Pillars of Self-Esteem by Nathaniel Branden (6-minute YouTube video by FightMediocrity)
- Self-Esteem (5-minute YouTube video by The School of Life)
- Steps to Improving Your Self-Esteem (psychologytoday.com)
- Self-Esteem: Influences, Traits, and How to Improve It (verywellmind.com)
- 100 Mental Health Quotes To Comfort, Encourage, Inspire
- 65 Acceptance Quotes To Help You Embrace Life Fully
- 83 Serenity Quotes To Bring Quietude Into Your Life
- 130 Maturity Quotes To Make You Steady And Calm
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Do you have good self-esteem? What’s your favorite self-esteem quote? And remember: words can transform your life, if you find the right ones.
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