270 Be Yourself Quotes That Will Give You Strength

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Here are the best quotes about being yourself. Always keep in mind that being different and unique may seem scary at first, but it can be, in fact, your greatest source of strength. Stay strong, my friend.

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Never apologize for being yourself. Paulo Coelho

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Be yourself. Everyone else is taken. Oscar Wilde

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When you are content to be simply yourself and don’t compare or compete, everybody will respect you. Lao Tzu (Tao Te Ching)

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The reward for conformity is that everyone likes you but yourself. Rita Mae Brown

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Existence wants you to be you. Osho


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It is better to be hated for what you are than to be loved for what you are not. André Gide

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Some people around you will not understand your journey. They don’t need to; it’s not for them. Paulo Coelho

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You must not be afraid of your uniqueness and you must care less and less what people think of you. Robert Greene

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No one ever made a difference by being like everyone else. Buckminster Fuller

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We are the ones we have been waiting for. Alice Walker

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The Best Be Yourself Quotes

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You change the world by being yourself. Yoko Ono

What is the seal of liberation? No longer being ashamed in front of oneself. Friedrich Nietzsche

He who obeys, does not listen to himself. Friedrich Nietzsche (Thus Spoke Zarathustra)

Don’t believe you have to be like anybody to be somebody. Nike

Be in the world, but don’t let the world be in you. Love, and yet don’t be lost in it. Relate, and yet be alone, utterly alone. Know perfectly well that all relationship is a game: play the game and play it as beautifully as possible and as skillfully as possible. Osho

If you desire to make a difference in the world, you must be different from the world. Elaine S. Dalton

Every man who says frankly and fully what he thinks is so far doing a public service. We should be grateful to him for attacking most unsparingly our most cherished opinions. John Stuart Mill (On Liberty)

Even if one is neither vain nor self-obsessed, it is so extraordinary to be oneself – exactly oneself and no one else. Simone de Beauvoir

There’s a point, around the age of twenty, when you have to choose whether to be like everybody else the rest of your life, or to make a virtue of your peculiarities. Ursula K. Le Guin (The Dispossessed)

Can you remember who you were, before the world told you who you should be? Charles Bukowski

The world just wants your authentic truth. Gabby Bernstein

You, being yourself, unknowingly inspire others to be themselves. Mooji

The imitator dooms himself to hopeless mediocrity. Ralph Waldo Emerson

The most important consequence of self-sufficiency is freedom. Epicurus

Can you live completely without ambition, completely without ever comparing yourself with another? Jiddu Krishnamurti

To exist is to change, to change is to mature, to mature is to go on creating oneself endlessly. Henri Bergson

Do not live to satisfy the expectations of others. Ichiro Kishimi (The Courage to Be Disliked)

Be nobody’s darling; Be an outcast. Take the contradictions of your life and wrap around you like a shawl, to parry stones, to keep you warm. Alice Walker

When you see a mob doing something, it should make you less likely to do it yourself, not more likely. Paul Graham

A dead thing can go with the stream, but only a living thing can go against it. G.K. Chesterton (The Everlasting Man)

When you walk the walk, whether successful or not, you feel more indifferent and robust to people’s opinion, freer, more real. Nassim Nicholas Taleb

Large groups are no place for smart people. Naval Ravikant

Just stick to your principles. And rest assured that, if you remain true to them, the same people who made fun of you will come to admire you. Epictetus

When someone is properly grounded in life, they shouldn’t have to look outside themselves for approval. Epictetus

Don’t let other people decide who you are. Bob Goff

A rebel is the one who lives totally according to his own light and risks everything else for his ultimate value of freedom. Osho (This is one of my favorite quote about being yourself. Leave a reply here and let me know what’s yours!)

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Part 2. Be Yourself Quotes That Are…

The Most Famous Be Yourself Quotes (JFK, Gandhi, Thoreau, etc.)

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This above all: to thine own self be true. William Shakespeare (Hamlet)

The most courageous act is still to think for yourself. Aloud. Coco Chanel

Whenever you find yourself on the side of the majority, it is time to reform (or pause and reflect). Mark Twain

Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind. Dr. Seuss

The best way to find yourself is to lose yourself in the service of others. Mahatma Gandhi

Conformity is the jailer of freedom and the enemy of growth. John F. Kennedy

Success isn’t about how your life looks to others. It’s about how it feels to you. That’s what it means to be true to yourself. Michelle Obama

All I want to do is be more like me and be less like you. Linkin Park (Numb)

I pay no attention whatever to anybody’s praise or blame. I simply follow my own feelings. Mozart

Do not fear to be eccentric in opinion, for every opinion now accepted was once eccentric. Bertrand Russell

Subservience of any kind is death to the spirit. Alice Walker

To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment. Ralph Waldo Emerson

They laugh at me because I’m different; I laugh at them because they’re all the same. Kurt Cobain

Never forget what you are, for surely the world will not. Make it your strength. Then it can never be your weakness. Armour yourself in it, and it will never be used to hurt you. Tyrion Lannister (George R. R. Martin, Games of Thrones)

My philosophy is: It’s none of my business what people say of me and think of me. I am what I am and I do what I do. I expect nothing and accept everything. And it makes life so much easier. Anthony Hopkins

One must know oneself. Even if it does not help in finding truth, at least it helps in running one’s life, and nothing is more proper. Blaise Pascal

You were born God’s original. Try not to become someone’s copy. Marian Wright Edelman

It takes courage to grow up and become who you really are. E. E Cummings

I wore black because I liked it. I still do, and wearing it still means something to me. It’s still my symbol of rebellion – against a stagnant status quo, against our hypocritical houses of God, against people whose minds are closed to others’ ideas. Johnny Cash

I would rather die having spoken in my manner, than speak in your manner and live. Socrates

Not till we have lost the world do we begin to find ourselves. Henry David Thoreau

The superior man follows nobody else’s path. Napoleon Bonaparte

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Short Be Yourself Quotes

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Become who you are. Friedrich Nietzsche

Conformity gets you nowhere. Neil Strauss

Spontaneity is total sincerity. Alan Watts

Our own life has to be our message. Thich Nhat Hanh

I’d rather be a freak than a clone. Joanne Harris

Intuition is allergic to conformity. Bill Masur

Appear as you are, be as you appear. Rumi

What the world craves is authenticity. Naval Ravikant

It is a waste of energy to follow anybody. Jiddu Krishnamurti

Stop letting the world keep score for you. Shane Parrish

Train yourself to take nothing personally. Robert Greene

You are who you are when nobody’s watching. Stephen Fry

Curiosity is insubordination in its purest form. Vladimir Nabokov

Do not commit to any side or cause but yourself. Robert Greene

To lead others, one must find one’s own direction. Zhuangzi

You are what existence wants you to be. Just relax. Osho

We have to wake up. We have to refuse to be a clone. Alice Walker

Follow your inner moonlight; don’t hide the madness. Allen Ginsberg

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Inspirational And Motivational Be Yourself Quotes

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Believe in yourself and you will be unstoppable. Conor McGregor

I am not what happened to me, I am what I choose to become. Carl Jung

So whatever you want to do, just do it…Making a damn fool of yourself is absolutely essential. Gloria Steinem

Accept right now that you are magnificent. Being your real, true, authentic self is what’s most awesome about you. Gabby Bernstein

Keep being yourself inside you. Keep visualizing what you are aiming for in life. Be patient and know that you will get what you want one day. Yoko Ono

It has often been said that a reformation should begin with each man reforming himself. Søren Kierkegaard

You must always be prepared to place a bet on yourself, on your future, by heading in a direction that others seem to fear. Robert Greene

Understand: you are one of a kind. Your character traits are a kind of chemical mix that will never be repeated in history. There are ideas unique to you, a specific rhythm and perspective that are your strengths, not your weaknesses. You must not be afraid of your uniqueness. Robert Greene

The reasonable man adapts himself to the world; the unreasonable one persists in trying to adapt the world to himself. Therefore all progress depends on the unreasonable man. George Bernard Shaw

You want to be uncommon amongst uncommon people. Period. David Goggins

The most contrarian thing of all is not to oppose the crowd but to think for yourself. Peter Thiel

If you can see your path laid out in front of you step by step, you know it’s not your path. Your own path you make with every step you take. That’s why it’s your path. Joseph Campbell

When you are in your own lane there is no traffic. Ashley France

Stop caring about impact and just be the best version of you possible – then you’ll naturally have an impact. Naval Ravikant

“Finding yourself” is not really how it works. You aren’t a ten-dollar bill in last winter’s coat pocket. You are also not lost. Your true self is right there, buried under cultural conditioning, other people’s opinions, and inaccurate conclusions you drew as a kid that became your beliefs about who you are. “Finding yourself” is actually returning to yourself. An unlearning, an excavation, a remembering who you were before the world got its hands on you. Emily McDowell

I’m going to do what I want to do. I’m going to be who I really am. And I’m going to figure out what that is. Stephen Chbosky

Find your place on the planet. Dig in, and take responsibility from there. Gary Snyder

You create yourself moment to moment. You are not born as a fixed entity, but only as a infinite potentiality. Osho

I teach you rebellion! Come out of the masses. Stand alone like a lion and live your life according to your own light. Osho

You should never sacrifice what you could be for what you are. Jordan Peterson

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Funny And Surprising Be Yourself Quotes

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Be the person your dog thinks you are. Ricky Gervais

I’m not confused. I’m just well mixed. Robert Frost

Only dead fish go with the flow. Derek Sivers

This isn’t life in the fast lane, it’s life in the oncoming traffic. Terry Pratchett

Trying to define yourself is like trying to bite your own teeth. Alan Watts

It’s hard to be a diamond in a rhinestone world. Dolly Parton

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Deep Be Yourself Quotes

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If you don’t say what you think then you kill your unborn self. Jordan Peterson

Wanting to be someone else is a waste of who you. Kurt Cobain

If you worry about your reputation you don’t deserve to have one. Nassim Nicholas Taleb

The simplest means of procuring protection from other men is security of quiet solitude and withdrawal from the mass of people. Epicurus

Only those who can accept their own annihilation can have the courage to be true individuals. Alan Watts

People follow the latest fashion and think they’re being rebels. In reality they’re clueless conformists. Rebellion is essentially of the soul. It has nothing to do with outward appearance. Real rebels are inwardly oriented. They don’t like to attract the attention of masses. The Ancient Sage

The worst thing that can happen to a man is to become civilized. David Goggins

If you don’t set your own values, other people will. Shane Parrish

The effect of life in society is to complicate and confuse our existence, making us forget who we really are by causing us to become obsessed with what we are not. Zhuangzi

Humans are born free, but habituated by society to obey by default. Flex your freedom muscle by questioning instead of blindly following authority. Justin Kan

The duty of the individual is to accept no rule, to be the initiator of his own acts, to be responsible. Only if he does so will the society live, and change, and adapt, and survive. We are not subjects of a State founded upon law, but members of a society formed upon revolution. Revolution is our obligation: our hope of evolution. Ursula K. Le Guin (The Dispossessed)

The world is so busy telling us who we should be, that we forget who we are. Bill Masur

The more labels you have for yourself, the dumber they make you. Paul Graham

As we go through life we gradually discover who we are, but the more we discover, the more we lose ourselves. Haruki Murakami (Colorless Tsukuru Tazaki and His Years of Pilgrimage)

The tighter you cling to your current identity, the harder it becomes to grow beyond it. James Clear

If they could they would not allow you to think for yourself. @AmuseChimp

To become what one is, one must not have the faintest idea what one is. Friedrich Nietzsche

Society tames the wolf into a dog. And man is the most domesticated animal of all. Friedrich Nietzsche

Nothing is yet in its true form. C.S. Lewis

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See also: How To Know Yourself (YouTube video by The School of Life)

Wise Be Yourself Quotes (Words Of Wisdom)

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Consult your conscience; rather than popular opinion. Publius Syrus

One has to be a teacher to oneself and a disciple of oneself; there is no authority, there is only understanding. Jiddu Krishnamurti

Within you, there is a stillness and a sanctuary to which you can retreat at anytime and be yourself. Hermann Hesse (Siddhartha)

If you know your being, there is no question of becoming. All that you could have ever imagined to become you already are. Osho

Man has to create himself. He is not ready-made, he is not given. And the creation has to be a self-creation – nobody else can make you. Osho

Remember: no attachment should grow, no clinging should grow. They are all against your independence, your freedom, your individuality. Osho

Just keep coming home to yourself. You are the one you’ve been waiting for. Byron Katie

Cherish that which is within you, and shut off that which is without. Zhuangzi

I prefer to be true to myself, even at the hazard of incurring the ridicule of others, rather than to be false, and to incur my own abhorrence. Frederick Douglass

I have no responsibility to live up to what others expect of me. That’s their mistake, not my failing. Richard Feynman

The most important things in life are measured internally. You have an inner scoreboard. Playing to someone else’s scoreboard is easy. But when you look up at the end after winning, you’ll feel empty as you discover you won the wrong game. Play your own game. Shane Parrish

You enter the forest at the darkest point, where there is no path. Where there is a way or path, it is someone else’s path. You are not on your own path. If you follow someone else’s way, you are not going to realize your potential. Joseph Campbell (The Hero’s Journey)

Self-understanding is the scariest path, hence why only the brave will reach it. @orangebook_

This balance between tribe and individuality, community and uniqueness, was a surprise in a world that makes us think we have to make a choice between them. Gloria Steinem (My Life on the Road)

Exercise authority over yourself, or you will be made to bow to the authority of others. Be your own lord and master. @TheStoicEmperor

A path of personal conviction offers great challenges and profound rewards. The journey may lead towards the tribe or away from it. The way of purpose is alive with a sense of intrinsic meaning. This is the rocky and uncrowded road of the self-responsible individual. @TheStoicEmperor

Observe things as they are and don’t pay attention to other people. Huang Po

He who tries to shine dims his own light. He who defines himself can’t know who he really is. Lao Tzu (Tao Te Ching)

Waking up to who you are requires letting go of who you imagine yourself to be. Alan Watts

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Part 3. Be Yourself Quotes About…

Be Yourself Quotes About Loving Yourself, Self-Acceptance

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To be beautiful means to be yourself. You don’t need to be accepted by others. You need to accept yourself. Thich Nhat Hanh

Love and accept your nature; that is where the journey starts. Osho

When you are dancing and singing with joy, with deep acceptance of yourself as you are, wisdom starts happening. Osho

Accept yourself as you are. And that is the most difficult thing in the world, because it goes against your training, education, you culture. Osho

Knowing thyself is the only way to experience the meaning and significance of existence. Osho

Being comfortable with who you are but knowing that you can improve. That is the balance. Bill Masur

Don’t dance around the perimeter of the person you want to be. Dive deeply and fully into it. Gabby Bernstein

If I work at being good at being me and you work at being good at being you, then we will like each other for who we really are. Simon Sinek

The journey isn’t so much about becoming someone. It’s about getting rid of everything that isn’t really you. Paulo Coelho

You can be happy with who you are and still want to be better. You can love your body and still want to improve it. You can appreciate your financial state and still want to improve it. Progress doesn’t require self-loathing. You can feel successful along the way. James Clear

Listen to your heart more than the opinions of others. A decision made because of the opinions of others is one we often come to regret. Haemin Sunim

Strictly speaking, when someone does not like us, it is not our problem but theirs. This becomes a problem only if we let it bother us. Haemin Sunim

Be there for others, but never leave yourself behind. Dodinsky

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See also: How to be a Friend to Yourself (YouTube video by The School of Life)

Be Yourself Quotes About Believing In Yourself, Being Proud

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In the real journey of life, your own intuition is your only teacher. Osho

Don’t be afraid to shine bright, be joyful and honor the whole truth of who you are. Gabby Bernstein

The minute you stop caring what others think, is the minute you start being yourself. Gabby Bernstein

Never label yourself. The less you define yourself by, the less constraints to growth. Derek Sivers

We all have different gifts, so we all have different ways of saying to the world who we are. Fred Rogers

Own your truth and tell your story. It’s time to embrace your unique soul signature. Panache Desai

Focus on being true to yourself and self-sufficient, and you’ll eventually find like-minded people. Ed Latimore

We have to dare to be ourselves, however frightening or strange that self may prove to be. May Sarton

People tend to take pride in who they are. And that’s a bad idea, because that stops you from becoming who you could be. Because, if you’re proud of who you are, you won’t let that go when it’s necessary; you won’t step away from it. Jordan Peterson

I wanted to become me, totally me. The more me, the better. I instinctively knew this and I was right. Phyllis Diller

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Be Yourself Quotes About Happiness, Inner Peace, Keeping Calm

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The tranquility that comes when you stop caring what they say. Or think, or do. Only what you do. Marcus Aurelius

Forgetting oneself is opening oneself. Dogen

Realization of one’s true nature is happiness. When one reaches happiness, one is close to perfection. This is Tao. Zhuangzi

When the self is not occupied with its own becoming there is an unpremeditated clarity, a deep ecstasy. Jiddu Krishnamurti

School, politics, sports, and games train us to compete against others. True rewards – wealth, knowledge, love, fitness, and equanimity – come from ignoring others and improving ourselves. Naval Ravikant

It’s easy to get distracted watching what everyone else is doing. Tend to your own fire. Bob Goff

I want to continue being crazy; living my life the way I dream it, and not the way the other people want it to be. Paulo Coelho

Rebellion is the fire, passing through which one gains freedom, individuality, integrity and only after that can one relax and be oneself. Osho

The person who can be happy alone is really an individual. If your happiness depends on the other, you are a slave; you are not yet free, you are in bondage. Osho

Aloneness is a flower blooming in your heart. Aloneness is positive. It is the joy of being yourself. It is the joy of having your own space. Osho

I’ve learned that there is nothing more consistent with unhappiness than spending your time in a way that doesn’t serve who you are. Scott Dinsmore

The thicker your skin, the more original you can be, the better you will create, the more satisfied you will be. Fateh Singh

A young outcast will often feel that there is something wrong with himself, but as he gets older, grows more confident in who he is, he will adapt, he will begin to feel that there is something wrong with everyone else. Criss Jami (Killosophy)

How much time do you spend judging the choices of other people? Practically nothing. You’re too damn busy thinking about your own life. Guess what? Other people are the same. No one is paying attention. Just be yourself. Johnny Uzan

Deceivers exploit fear and desire. A fearless contented person is very hard to fool. @TheStoicEmperor

A self is not something static, tied up in a pretty parcel and handed to the child, finished and complete. A self is always becoming. Madeleine L’Engle (A Circle of Quiet)

What if finding ourselves is not a destination but an ongoing process. Shane Parrish

Be vulnerable. People will either love you for it, or not care at all. Sahil Lavingia

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See also: 10 Ways To Always Be Yourself And Live Happily (lifehack.org)

Be Yourself Quotes About Confidence, Courage, Being Strong

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We are constantly invited to be who we are. Henry David Thoreau

Every human being should keep alive within them the sacred flame of madness. Paulo Coelho

Once we give up searching for approval we often find it easier to earn respect. Gloria Steinem

Freedom is the will to be responsible to ourselves. Friedrich Nietzsche

An enlightened man had but one duty – to seek the way to himself, to reach inner certainty, to grope his way forward, no matter where it led. Hermann Hesse (Demian)

Who you are is defined by the values you are willing to struggle for. Mark Manson

Worse than fear of failure is fear of criticism. People are gonna talk sh*t no matter what you do. You do nothing and you’re a loser. You do something and you care too much. Just do what you want and enjoy life. Ed Latimore

Be the person you are. Never try to be another, and you will become mature. Maturity is accepting the responsibility of being oneself, whatsoever the cost. Risking all to be oneself, that’s what maturity is all about. Osho

The ultimate definition of bravery is not being afraid of who you are. Chögyam Trungpa

Rise to the level of your ideals, not the average of your environment. @TheStoicEmperor

Do not let people’s opinions of you mold your destiny. Let unhappy people have their unhappy thoughts. Continue on your path courageously. Haemin Sunim

Strengthen the individual. Start with yourself. Take care of yourself. Define who you are. Refine your personality. Choose your destination. Jordan Peterson

Walk tall and gaze forthrightly ahead. Dare to be dangerous. Jordan Peterson

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See also: How to Be Yourself in Five Simple Steps (psychologytoday.com)

Be Yourself Quotes About Work

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Creativity is the greatest rebellion in existence. Osho

You’ve got to keep control of your time, and you can’t unless you say no. You can’t let people set your agenda in life. Warren Buffett

You can escape competition through authenticity, when you realize that no one can compete with you on being you. Naval Ravikant

The way to get out of the competition trap is actually to be authentic. The way to retire is actually to find the thing that you know how to do better than anybody. And, you know how to do that better than anybody because you love to do it. Naval Ravikant

Doing what everyone else thinks you should do is almost always a sure path to average. Shane Parrish

The only person worth competing against is who you were yesterday. Sahil Lavingia

When you show yourself to the world and display your talents, you naturally stir all kinds of resentment, envy, and other manifestations of insecurity… you cannot spend your life worrying about the petty feelings of others. Robert Greene

Once you realize your only competition is yourself, you win. Carlos Del Valle

Doing what everybody else is doing feels like the safest thing to do. But it’s also the most competitive, which makes it the riskiest. Morgan Housel

You perform best when you don’t think about it, i.e. when you are not self-conscious. This is also called “being yourself.” You can be yourself only when there is no inner conflict or self-division. This usually happens when you are not self-conscious – when you let yourself go. @TheAncientSage

If people around you don’t think what you’re doing is a bit strange, maybe it’s not strange enough. Patrick Collison (Stripe)

At your birth a seed is planted. That seed is your uniqueness. It wants to grow, transform itself, and flower to its full potential. It has a natural, assertive energy to it. Your Life’s Task is to bring that seed to flower, to express your uniqueness through your work. Robert Greene

If you are worried about what others might think then you will never really create anything. Robert Greene

Never be afraid of the qualities that set you apart and draw attention to you. Robert Greene

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Be Yourself Quotes About Being Unique And Different

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If you don’t like what someone has to say, argue with them. Noam Chomsky

I’m not in this world to live up to your expectations and you’re not in this world to live up to mine. Bruce Lee

You have your way. I have my way. As for the right way, the correct way, and the only way, it does not exist. Friedrich Nietzsche

The apple doesn’t fall far from the tree. But fortunately we are not apples, so we always have the option of getting up and moving as far away from the tree as we want. Neil Strauss

Men have called me mad; but the question is not yet settled, whether madness is or is not the loftiest intelligence. Edgar Allan Poe

Respect your uniqueness, and drop comparison. Relax into your being. Osho

Be yourself and let others be themselves and this life, this planet, can become the lotus paradise here-now. Osho

People cannot change who you are and what you were born to be. Iyanla Vanzant

When you have something to say, silence is a lie. Jordan Peterson

There’s a rebel lying deep in my soul. Anytime anybody tells me the trend is such and such, I go the opposite direction. I hate the idea of trends. I hate imitation; I have a reverence for individuality. Clint Eastwood (Wild Open Spaces)

There’s a whole category of people who miss out by not allowing themselves to be weird enough. Alain de Botton

Do not accept the roles that society foists on you. Re-create yourself by forging a new identity, one that commands attention and never bores the audience. Be the master of your own image rather than letting others define if for you. Robert Greene

Everybody is identical in their secret unspoken belief that way deep down they are different from everyone else. David Foster Wallace (Infinite Jest)

As much as I live I shall not imitate them or hate myself for being different to them. Orhan Pamuk (Snow)

A flower does not think of competing to the flower next to it. It just blooms. Sensei Ogui (Zen Shin)

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See also: Self-Esteem (YouTube video by The School of Life)

Be Yourself Quotes About Conformity

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One must shed the bad taste of wanting to agree with many. Friedrich Nietzsche (Beyond Good and Evil)

When a hundred men stand together, each of them loses his mind and gets another one. Friedrich Nietzsche

The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe. If you try it, you will be lonely often, and sometimes frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself. Friedrich Nietzsche

To be nobody but yourself in a world which is doing its best, night and day, to make you everybody else means to fight the hardest battle which any human being can fight; and never stop fighting. E. E. Cummings

If you change the way you behave for the sole purpose of being liked, you will probably end up hating the person you have become. Thibaut

We are in a culture that demands authenticity from others….then punishes them when their authenticity doesn’t conform to the norms of the culture. Neil Strauss

Tension means you want to be something else which you are not. Osho (The Book of Secrets)

You are being taught everything, but you are not being taught to be yourself. This is the ugliest form of society possible, because it makes everybody miserable. Osho (Joy: The Happiness That Comes from Within)

Listening so much to others and conforming our behavior to them, we slowly lose a sense of our uniqueness and the ability to think for ourselves. The only solution is to develop self-awareness and a superior understanding of the changes that occur in us in groups. Robert Greene

A contrarian isn’t one who always objects – that’s a conformist of a different sort. A contrarian reasons independently, from the ground up, and resists pressure to conform. Naval Ravikant

The moment I figure out something is a waste of time, I leave immediately. Naval Ravikant

The most loving parents and relatives commit murder with smiles on their faces. They force us to destroy the person we really are: a subtle kind of murder. Jim Morrison

The worst curse to befall anyone is stagnation, a banal existence, the quiet desperation that comes out of a need for conformity. Deepak Chopra (The Return of Merlin)

It is better for an exceptional individual to be alone (and in the company of great men of the past and present through their books, etc) than to be in the mediocrizing influence of those around him. A genius is nourished by his solitary rebellion against the ways of society. @TheAncientSage

All great souls are rebellious at heart. He who is a conformist is doomed to mediocrity. @TheAncientSage

It is only the man who walks alone that is able to reach the highest of heights. For he has come to see with pristine clarity that every possible influence from society and its people can only shrink his vision and narrow his stride. Kapil Gupta

If you are ever tempted to look for outside approval, realize that you have compromised your integrity. If you need a witness, be your own. Epictetus

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See also: 15 Biggest Pros and Cons of Conformity in Society (connectusfund.org)

Be Yourself Quotes About Integrity, Being Real, Authenticity

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I’m not entangled in shaping my work according to other people’s views of how I should have done it. Toni Morrison

It’s about the choice to show up and be real. The choice to be honest. The choice to let our true selves be seen. Brené Brown

Authenticity is the daily practice of letting go of who we think we’re supposed to be and embracing who we are. Brené Brown

I’d rather be a failure at something I love than a success at something I hate. George F. Burns

Seek only to be genuine. Strive to be sincere. Do what you can do. Then let it rest. Neale Donald Walsch

If you’re not saying yes with enthusiasm to something just say no. Shane Parrish

Yes, Mother. I can see you are flawed. You have not hidden it. That is your greatest gift to me. Alice Walker

Never try too hard to make people like you. In fact, it doesn’t matter if people like you or not. Be your best self and you’ll attract the best people for you. This is the power of authenticity. Ed Latimore

It is better to be inconsistent but authentic than being consistent but inauthentic. @TheAncientSage

If you don’t stand your ground, then all that happens is people push you backwards. Jordan Peterson

See also: truth quotes, simplicity quotes

See also: What It Really Means to “Just Be Yourself” and 3 Ways to Do It (tinybuddha.com)

Part 4. Conclusion

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Part 1. In this age, the mere example of non-conformity, the mere refusal to bend the knee to custom, is itself a service. Precisely because the tyranny of opinion is such as to make eccentricity a reproach, it is desirable, in order to break through that tyranny, that people should be eccentric. John Stuart Mill (On Liberty)

Part 2. Eccentricity has always abounded when and where strength of character has abounded; and the amount of eccentricity in a society has generally been proportional to the amount of genius, mental vigor, and moral courage which it contained. That so few now dare to be eccentric, marks the chief danger of the time. John Stuart Mill (On Liberty)

My kids are starting to notice I’m a little different from the other dads. “Why don’t you have a straight job like everyone else?” they asked me the other day. I told them this story: In the forest, there was a crooked tree and a straight tree. Every day, the straight tree would say to the crooked tree, “Look at me…I’m tall, and I’m straight, and I’m handsome. Look at you…you’re all crooked and bent over. No one wants to look at you.” And they grew up in that forest together. And then one day the loggers came, and they saw the crooked tree and the straight tree, and they said, “Just cut the straight trees and leave the rest.” So the loggers turned all the straight trees into lumber and toothpicks and paper. And the crooked tree is still there, growing stronger and stranger every day. Tom Waits

What is your favorite quote about being yourself? Would you like to add another one here? Can you tell us a story where you had to fight for yourself instead of conforming? Please let us know in the comment section below!

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